Day in, day out people confide in me about their relationship trials and tribulations. I listen cause obviously they are burdened but sometimes I really feel like a hypocrite 'cause it ain't like I have any sort of model relationship. In fact, I have no clue what I have because 99% of the time it's just me and the kids. Eery weekend. Every holiday and just about week day, it's just me and the three Musketeers. And you know what, I'm pretty at peace with it so that I could move on with the man who will treasure and appreciate me for who I am and what I have to offer. But the one thing I can't stand is a man who won't let go...especially when he has no interest in taking a substantive role in the relationship.
Men make me laugh! No let me rephrase that. BOYS make me laugh...they always wanna have their cake and eat it too. They think they can cheat and do whatever they want, be sorry they got caught, beg for a little forgiveness then expect for everything to be ok. Well peeps I am no longer that one. I ain't got no ring on my finger so I feel no desire to put up with substandard crap any longer. And no, that doesn't always mean cheating,but if a man would rather be everywhere and anywhere except with you there definitely is a problem. But homey don't get mad if there are many clamoring to be where u refuse to!
Ladies, life is too short to settle for shit. And to the GOOD MEN out there, you better not either! I know full well that there are some trifling women out there too.
So for those of you who may be in doubt about whether your man has checked out, I've compiled a list called Tootsie's Telltale Signs that he don't want you.....
1. He cheats while ya pregnant
2. He cheats while you're home taking care of the baby
3. He does nothing with u and takes you nowhere
4. He turns off his phone when you're around but it's always on when ya not
5. He always blames people in his home for why he never comes around
6. Always has to go to help someone (wonder what body part needed help?)
7. Tells lies to anyone who will listen
8. Blames u for everything that goes wrong but refuses to go counseling
9. Ignores your calls and says they left the phone 'in my bag'
10.doesn't want you to move on yet continues to repeat many of the signs above
I implore you not to be a fool. You deserve better. And so do I.
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You are certainly right about not deserving to be treated shabbily by anyone. The good ones are out there Carla. No need to settle for anything but the best for you!
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